opfraw.blogg.se - No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover

If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life.

If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask.If I am good, then I will be liked and loved.The paradigm of the Nice Guy Syndrome is driven by three faulty covert contracts. Rapid social change in the late 20th century and early 21st century has contributed to a worldwide explosion of men struggling to find happiness, love, and purpose. The Nice Guy Syndrome typically begins in infancy and childhood when a young boy inaccurately internalizes emotional messages about himself and the world.

He also believes that he must hide anything about himself that might trigger a negative response in others. He is convinced that he must become what he thinks others want him to be liked, loved, and get his needs met. Robert Glover, a pioneering expert on the Nice Guy Syndrome, is a man who believes he is not okay just as he is. How did you know me so well?Ī Nice Guy, according to Dr. “I have read every self-help book out there, but this was the first that put everything together in a way that made perfect sense to me.”

The mind and the thinking that got you into the problem that you’re in is not going to get you out of it.“One of the best books I’ve ever read on men’s emotional health and development.” Mark Manson, author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Models.

Even once you think you’re completely “fixed” you should always continue to grow.

Learn to accept help from other people without feeling uncomfortable.

Women used to complain about the jerks, now if you go online women are complaining about the “nice guys” and how he does everything for her but then thinks he is entitled.

Identifying And Becoming More Self Aware Robert Glover goes into detail on becoming self-aware, working on your “nice guy” syndrome, and fixing your excuses.

He has helped change the lives of countless men and women around the world. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan For Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life. Dr.Robert Glover is the author of No More Mr.